Me an my boyfriend have a great deal of trust for each other. I let him go out with his mates, he lets me go out with my mates. But for some reason today i feel incredibly jealous that he has gone out with this girl for a drink and a catch up. Now admittedly it has been a while since me and him have been out together because of work and such. but i have never had a problem like this until today. Am i just winding myself up or should i actually be jealous of this girl?
I forgot to say i only found out this girl exsisted a week ago an i have been in this situation before with other guys and they've all ended one way, me being single again.

I would be jealous too, dont say anything to him though, act like you dont give a damn, that miffs a man out. just keep an eye on whats going on between them, and if you think there is dump him.

Depends. Blokes can have female friends.

If she's an ex then yes, maybe you should feel jealous. But not always even in this case.

If she's a new girl on the scene then yes. Definitely!
(watch out for this, he may even say they have known each other for ages even when they haven't!)

If they have just been friends for years and are just catching up then no. If they were gonna hook up they would have done so by now.

if u trust him then stop winding urself up, its ok for someone to have friends of the opposite sex

Let me say this,we need our friends even when we are committed to another.If he has time to go drink with another girl because you cant meet him,why cant he come to where you are and share a cup of coffee or tea?Put the shoe on the other foot.How would he like it if he were busy and you were meeting a guy for drinks.Come on,how busy is he?He either likes you or he doesnt.Did he just tell you? Did you find out on your own?

Yes - you need your head tested to put up with it

I have a guy friend that I go for drinks wit, socialise with and he has a girlfriend that I've only met once but she's noting to worry abt cos there s nothing goin on! Guys and girls can just be friends!

Yes! I would be pissed! . . But that's probably why I am single lol

Yes you are jealous if it was me i would chuck him why does he need to go for a drink with another girl?